Relationship Advice for Women
Hey! This is Amber with thelovegal.com . I am the author of Getting Back is the Relationship You Always Wanted. and today’s post will be special. I am going to give you some relationship advice that will carry you through your current or future romance. You went to your favorite search engine looking for relationship advice for women and you’ve stumbled on the right post. Be sure to come back to my blog because I’m almost positive that there will be a part two to this post. Let’s get into it!
Be his peace through the storm.
What exactly does this mean? When you’re in a relationship, it’s vital that you feel like “home” to your partner. And yes, your partner should be your peace too. Some women nag their men to death and don’t realize that they are pushing them away. I’m not saying that this is you but it’s something to keep in mind. Yes, relationships have problems but it’s not okay to constantly badger, belittle, and nag your partner. A relationship is a partnership. You two are a team, not each other’s enemy. You aren’t his mother. He’s already grown. You can’t raise him or change him unless he wants to on his own. If you express what bothers you and he doesn’t correct his actions, he isn’t ready to change that element about himself. Remember, a mistake happens once. If it happens more than once, it’s a decision. After a decision is made, you decide if you can live with their decisions or not.
Find a common ground and learn what the both of you expect out of the relationship in the beginning. It will solve a lot of problems. Learn about his past so you can expect his actions in the future. Listen to understand each other.
Men need hugs, too. Men love compliments, too. Men love affection, too. Men loves to be understood, too. Men love gifts, too. He’s not there to solely make you happy. You guys have to make each other happy.
Believe it or not, he doesn’t know what you’re thinking.
When you’re with someone for a long period of time, you expect them to know you like the back in your hand. You expect them to know what you want from them. Sometimes they don’t. At times, we get irritated because we get let down and we either yell or go silent completely.
One of the best pieces of advice that I’ve heard is, “assume they don’t know and tell them what you want them to do.” Everyone wasn’t raised like you. Everybody doesn’t think the way you do. Assume that they don’t know what you want and let him know your needs and wants.
Support him and he will love you like no other.
Majority of us think that if we look good, cook, clean, and give him the best sex he’s ever had that he’ll stay. That’s not the case and you know it. We have all been in a relationship where we did everything right and still got cheated on or left.
What’s the one thing that will make a man stay? Support. Support a man’s thoughts, dreams, and desires and he will love you forever. A man has enough pressure from the outside world and doesn’t have much support from it.
It doesn’t matter how small or big the task is. He needs to know he has someone who believes in him. Almost successful man is successful because he has a woman by his side with a vision. In other words:
If he wants a ice cream truck, be there to scoop.
Be the person that you would want to be around.
Let’s be honest. Would you want to be around you if you weren’t you? Would you wife you if you were him? Why or why not? A man won’t marry a woman if he feels like she is a liability. Men marry women who they feel are an asset to their life. Are you an asset or a liability? What about you enhances his life?
Accept him as he is, or leave.
Once we meet a man, we think that we can change him. That’s not the case. He will only change for two reasons:
- He sees the benefit in changing for the better.
- He doesn’t want to lose you.
Accept him as he is so you will know what to expect of him. Your life will become much easier if you accept his flaws and shortcomings. Do you love him or love what he can become? There’s a chance that he may not reach his full potential. Are you willing to accept that?
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