How to Get Your Ex Back By Text Message
So I noticed that you were looking for the remedy on how to get your ex back by text message so I decided to write a blog post about it, just for you. I’ve been in your shoes before. I lost my ex and I was freaking out. I would call him, text him, and send him messages on social media just to get him to talk to me. But the gag is, he wouldn’t respond. It felt like a dead in.
You see, I know communicating by text and social media is the normal thing to do nowadays. However, text messages are casual. Nothing about your love life should be casual. You want your ex back so gambling with them by sending a text message that may not work is risky.
I’m about to tell you how to get more personal with your ex and shock them. Remember, I was in your shoes before and I got my ex back after it seemed impossible. I used a way more personal way to get them back.
Keep reading to learn my 3-step method to getting my ex back.
How to Get Your Ex Back Sooner Than Later
The first step to getting your ex back is giving them space to exhale. I know this is super hard for you to swallow but you need to do it.
What if I told you that giving them space was the only way to get them back? Would you do it? Implement the no contact rule. You want your ex to start thinking about you and contacting you. The no contact rule means that you can not contact them at all for at least 14 days. That means no text messages, no calls, no private messages on social media, or no likes or comments.
This will be difficult for you to do but if you keep yourself busy then it’s possible to achieve. If you have a necessary reason such as children then keep the conversations short and about the children only.
By not contacting them, you are forcing them to think about you. You’re forcing them to wonder what you’re doing and what you’re thinking about. Silence says one thousand words. If you’re constantly texting or calling them then they’ll know what you’re up to. By sending text messages, you’re making the situation worse.
Sending a Text vs. a Letter
Do you want to send a text message that might get a response or would you rather send a handwritten letter that would almost guarantee a response? Handwritten letters are more personal because no one writes anymore. This letter absolutely has to be written by hand, put it in an envelope, put a stamp on it, and mail to their house. The letter will have your scent and your words in your handwriting. That is way more personal, right? It will show them that you took the time to sit down and write them a letter.
This letter, like the example shown in my book, shouldn’t be more than a page. You need to agree with the breakup. Agreeing with the breakup will switch the rejection from you to them. As humans, we naturally want what we can’t have. They will be naturally drawn to you again because they will start to look at you as a “goal” subconsciously.
When I implemented the no-contact rule and sent my letter, I heard from my ex within days. This was after he left me for someone else and was ignoring my calls and text. He started reaching out to me first. By doing this, you are pushing the feeling of rejection onto them and have them chase you.
We eventually became friends and got back together long-term.
The Step by Step Instructions to Getting Your Ex Back & Improving Your Relationship