So you want to know how to get your ex to want you back. The recipe is simple. Don’t give them the attention that they expect from you. They expect you to be super sad and unhappy that you guys aren’t together. Now, I’m not saying that you have to be the biggest a-hole ever but you have to keep your cool. In other words, you need to have a poker face on at all times. Even if you’re sad that your relationship is on pause, you have to hold it together. You have to keep it cool around people who you aren’t that close to you as well. People talk too much and you don’t need anyone running back to your ex and telling them that you’re tore up on the inside because of the breakup. Only people who you can trust should know about your true feelings. In this article, I will be going over how to get your ex to want you back and what you should to get them back.
How to Get Your Ex to Want You Back
The key to getting your ex to want you back is something that you already can give yourself. The key to getting him to notice you is your own happiness. They won’t be able to help but think about you if they see you moving on. Even if they are so-called “happy” themselves, they will find themselves thinking about you more and more.
Your goal is to get them to see you in a positive light. Let’s break down this situation a little more. Your relationship ended because there were more negative things surrounding it than positive. In the beginning, you were something refreshing to think about. As time went on, you became this person in your ex’s life that no longer served as a breath of fresh air.
You need to get them to see you as the person you were before things went south. In the beginning, they started to need you. That’s how you can get them to want you back. They need to need you or at least feel as if they do.
How to Get Your Ex to Want You Back
You can’t literally come out and say things will be different. You have to make them think it’s their idea to get back together. Things have to seem to be different with you in their mind.
When you talk to them, don’t talk about the past. Keep things positive and keep a positive attitude. You have to come off as the ex that respects their decision to be apart even if you don’t.
The good thing about love is that true love never dies. Deep down, their love for you is still there. You just need to know the strategies to bring it out of them.
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