If you’re reading this article then there is a great chance that you have fell for a guy before he has fell for you. Hey, it happens to the best of us. You didn’t wake up one day and say, “Hey, I’m going to fall in love with (insert his name here) today.” One day, you were sitting around thinking and you realized that you fell in love with him. You love him and you love him a lot so you want him to feel the same thing about you that you do about him. Simple enough? Yeah right. You need some guidance. In this article, I will lay out the three steps that you need to do so your man boy will start falling in love.

Before I get into the 3 steps of how men fall in love, understand that men’s minds operate differently than ours do. According to TV, all we have to do to get a man to fall in love is look amazing 100% of the time, cook delicious meals, and give him the best sex of his life and he will stay forever. Yeah, that’s all great in TV land but for the men who still leave after you think you’ve done everything right – there’s more to it.


How Men Fall In Love

  1.  Support your man. You need to be the one person in your man’s corner that will be there for him no matter what. He already has people his family and friends to tell him how stupid his ideas and dreams are so those positions are already filled. Did you know that support is the #1 thing that a man looks for? I mean, they don’t literally think to themselves, “I will fall for her if she supports me.” However, when you are there for him when he needs you the most. It will go a long way. Even if you’re trying to save your relationship or marriage, support is the number 1 factor in why men hold onto their women.
  2. Stroke his ego. Us as women have a natural power that is called “tear that ass apart”. We point out every flaw about a man especially when we’re angry. That is one of the main reasons why men end up leaving us for the next chick. The next chick is telling him everything that he wants to hear and looking at him like her super hero. On the other hand, we point everything that’s wrong with him. Now, I’m not saying that you have to kiss his rear just to get him to love you. Tell him everything you like about him. Tell him that you appreciate him and his presence. It goes a long way.
  3. Let him be him. No one is perfect and we know this. Yet, we still try to mold a man into what we want him to be. If you find a man that has showed you great qualities but does some things that you don’t like then take the good with the bad. You knew what he was like when you met him. You knew if he was a good guy or bad guy or not. You can’t change someone who doesn’t want to change on their own. It has to be their decision. Nagging him about something that has been apart of him his whole life is pointless. He knows that one thing bothers you and if he doesn’t want to change then that’s him.

A man will fall in love with you when his heart tells him, not his brain. When he starts to think about you all of the time then he is starting to fall for you. In order for you to get him to think about you all of the time, you have to make him feel every emotion. Yes, every emotion – happy, emotional, angry, confused, etc.

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