How to Get Back With Ex After a Bad Breakup
Hey you! If you are new to my blog, I am Amber with thelovegal.com. I am also the author of Getting Back the Relationship You Always Wanted:A Step-by-step guide on how to get your ex back. Most importantly, I was someone who lost their ex and got them back while it seemed impossible. I do not claim to be a relationship expert. However, I do have a background in psychology which has allowed me to learn what triggers the human mind and emotions. You’re here for one thing. You want to know how to get back with your ex. Fair enough. In this post, I am going to be completely honest with you. If you really want your ex back, you will at least give my tips some consideration. Let’s get started.
How to Get Back With An Ex
Address the Issues in the Relationship and Prepare a Plan to Fix Them. One thing that I notice when people want their ex back, they try to rush back into it. Don’t be like them. Address the elephant in the room. What made the relationship end? What was the main issue? If they were to give you a second chance, what would you do to make the relationship better? What could they do help the relationship progress? Do you want them back because you’re feeling rejected, or do you want them back because you two are great together? While you’re single, get to the bottom of everything.
Give them Space. Respect their decision of not wanting a relationship with you right now. Imagine not wanting to be with someone and they keep hounding you and bombarding you with overwhelming mannerisms. That would suck right? Put yourself in their shoes. Let them figure out exactly how they feel about you without your interference. They won’t forget about you. I promise. Utilize the no contact rule. It will help you in the long run.
Let them Come to You. If the love is real then you will cross their mind. They will reach out to you if they miss you enough. When they do, don’t be too available. When you’re too accessible, your ex will sense that and back away from you. Humans don’t like things that are easy to catch unfortunately. We like challenges. What is the challenge if you are texting back really fast? Or showing up every time they ask you to? Let their mind wonder? The more they think about you, the better.
Show Them Something Different. Did you know you can subliminally tell your ex that things will be different this time by making subtle changes to your appearance? They may not be able to put their finger on it but something deep down will trigger new feelings for you. You can get a different haircut, part your hair different, change your style of shirt, or even lose some weight (if it makes sense). If you’re not around your ex, upload a few new selfies to show off the “new you”.
Agree With the Breakup. The first step to doing what I call “damage control” is agreeing with the breakup. By doing so, you’re practically reverse psychology with your ex. People want what they can’t have. By agreeing with the breakup, you are passing the rejecting from yourself on to them.
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