How to Know if He’s Not That Into You

The guy that you’re interested in may be a cool to hang out with but he might not be the one to take home to meet your dad. Men always know what to say to women that they like but they speak better with their actions. What is he really telling you? Here are a few things to look out for when you’re not sure about how he feels about you. 

  1. He doesn’t want to be seen with you. Have you ever suggested that the two of you go out and do something but all he ever wants to do is lay up in the house? I’m not saying that all men who enjoy being indoors are players, but there should be a compromise on what you guys do when you hang out. Men who entertain multiple women have a fear of getting caught by their other women. Men hate drama so the best way to avoid it is stay out of dodge.
  2. He can go a long period of time without talking to you. Guys who really like a female will put her at the top of their priority list. It’s true, men work for what they want. If he treats you like an option, it’s probably because you are. You don’t have to text him all day long to know if he likes you. Heck, men may do that if they’re bored. Going days or a week at a time without communication is a sign that he doesn’t take you as serious. 
  3. His mind seems somewhere else when you’re together. When you finally get to spend time with him and he seems like he’s not even in the room with you then he’s thinking about something other than being there with you. It could be work, his other chicks, his family, etc. If you try to ask him what he’s thinking and he chooses not to talk about it then it means that you guys aren’t at the level for him to open up to you. It’s nothing personal. He just needs more time.